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[31 Mar 2006|10:11pm]

[ mood | contemplative ]

Hi, new here. This community is pretty awesome. No posts for a long time though...
I have to say I don't understand this obsession with delicacy and the expectations of what femininity should be. In my opinion, I don't want to be vulnerable. I don't want to victimize my self by wearing stilletos that will prevent me from running or jumping. I'll take combat boots thank you very much. I don't want to be thinner and more fragile because then a 250 pound guy will end up breaking my bones when I'm invariably dogpiled in a mosh pit. And if I get a freaking manicure, I'm just going to mess it up by getting my fingernails into my latest sculpture or painting anyway.

Has anyone ever noticed how fast girls' clothing falls apart or splits at the seams and hems... like we don't wear our clothing out just as much as the guys? Such fragile fabrics too... such a shame. But if we wear anything the slightest bit practical and utilitarian then we're suddenly 'dykes' and 'he-women'. I've never really understood what is so derogatory about a female who takes up for herself and doesn't let herself get taken advantage of, used, or heartbroken.

So much I just don't understand.

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[21 Nov 2005|11:10pm]

[ mood | curious ]

So, I wrote out what people don't know about me and it's a huge fucking list. I have no idea what to write about except that romours suck. I hate Dustin, and Nathan. I need advice on Virgin Sex and why is my head hurting.

Nathan still pisses me off for his comments towards me. Who says that your going to hell because you don't beleive in God. Stupid fucking bitch! Like no wonder he is on so many peoples hit list. He is surely oin my pretend one

Anyways I had the drunken game of do you remember with friends and it was shown to me that I am a horrible drunk,,,,oh well

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[27 May 2005|12:41pm]

[ mood | bouncy ]

okay so my bestest drug named Tonya just sent thsi to me I love it.. Makes me giggle...................


Spread the legs and go at it! Pick any of your friends who you think don't
get much lovin' (or maybe they do!) and, SEX THEM! (you can copy and paste
this message on their userpage!) This is for any one you think is hot!


1- You can sex the person who sexed you, of course.

2- You can sex the same person as many times as you can (c'mon, ENDURANCE)!
Be creative!*

3- You -MUST- spread the sex! At least 1 fuck is fine and dandy!

4- You should sex in public! Be adventurous, damnit. Paste it on their user
page so they feel slutty!

5- Random sex is perfectly okay!

6- Please, don't worry about same gender sexing, it's HOT.

7- You should most definitly get started fuckin' right away!

This is about showing everyone how much you care for them and HOW BAD YOU
WANT THEIR ASS! Make everyone feel a little loved (and roughed up!). Please
don’t take this too personally,


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[14 Apr 2005|07:15pm]

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down with steriotypes [14 Apr 2005|06:49pm]

Girls are always attempting to become something that they belive is prettier. Crazy 9th grade girls at my school are walking around wearing shirts that seems almost glued to their skin, same goes for every generation of highschoolers.

Well, im a "tomboy" i guess. Term tomboy just doesnt put it right though. I have NEVER worn makeup to school, and i never will, i mean these years of my life my skin is supposed to be at its best. I feel out of place like a sore thumb sometimes. Showing up at school in my bfs extra large sweaters. When you have a bf, i find it easier to be the real "you" so to speak. As a kid i played in the dirt, collected worms and did all sorts of kiddish crap. My friends grew out of it, but i feel like i never did. I like to have fun the old fashioned way.
My guy friends know me as one of the guys. Sometimes i wish girls had the kind of internal "girl power" that they had back in 1995 (year of the spice girls)LOL
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*cricket cricket* [23 Mar 2005|07:57pm]

post darnt! this site is dead

gosh darnt

i'm gonna go smack myself..

mk ttyl lol

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Quizzes aren't that fun [12 Feb 2005|09:59am]

[ mood | blah ]

Your LJ Perfect Date
LJ Username
Choose a random word
Your Perfect Date devils_aire
You have dinner at your place
Afterwards you go to the beach
Your date asks you if he/she can kiss you
You say I love you
Chance you will get lucky - 64%
This fun quiz by akasha82 - Taken 276942 Times.
New - COOL Dating Tips and Romance Advice!

That is neat becaue my date is my best friend. Sorry Hun but your not my type.

There's fun and then there's having too much fun. You often cross the line. You love to behave outrageously at parties, and for you, it isn't a party until something unforgettable happens. You may want to tone it down a little. After all, you can still have a good time without making a scene!
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[03 Feb 2005|09:58pm]

[ mood | cynical ]

ok, this is my first post, and i just wanted to say why i joined.

im sick of being expected to have perfect skin and hair, i have two guy cousins, and they both have really bad skin and pretty bad hair, and ive always had really nice skin and really nice hair, but the first zit i got was like this huge deal for my family, my mom was always like, 'you need to take care of that skin baby' and 'your complexion used to be so beautiful, why arent you washing it like youre suppossed to?' with my MALE cousins, they never said anything, i guess the male ego is too easier deflated than a teenage girls.

also, for years my mom tried to c onvince me to wear makeup, not i like wearing it sometimes, hell, i like it most days, but i hate that its expected of me, i hate that i cant dress like a guy (aka comfortable) without being called a dyke.

and thats why i joined this community, to bitch about the cruel expectations of the male species.

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My Article On Sexism. [07 Jan 2005|10:46pm]

[ mood | sick ]

Hey everyone. I said I have an article on sexism that I wrote, and although it seems like I am singling out men in the article and putting the blame on them, I just want to make it clear now, that when I wrote this article, it was in no way my intention. Anyways, heres the article, I'd love some feedback as well :)

Sexism: More Our Future Than Our PastCollapse )

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New [27 Dec 2004|09:11pm]

[ mood | bouncy ]

Hey I just joined here and thought I'd post. I really hate the image of women these days, and not just the slutty clothes part, but every bit of it. When people believe women are the mothers, the ones who cook and clean, while the man works and comes home to a warm meal. I think its such bullshit. For the one I love, I probably would make a meal for him to come home to after a hard days work, but having someone expect it to be there, I'm not good with. And being a teenager, I experience a lot of guys coming up me, giving me their number/e-mail, expecting to get something sexual from me, which really pisses me off. Just because I have a pretty face and wear a pair of tight jeans every once in awhile, doesn't mean I want to have sex with you, or even talk to you. Just the other day, one of my aunts clients came up to me in her chiropractic office, infront of my grandparents, and gave me his e-mail. When I added him, the first thing he asked was if I did shit on cam, and anytime after that, he only talked to me to ask me that question, hoping my No would change to a Yes. Yeah, I was pissed, but I also thought, that is complete disrespect. Coming up to me, wasting my time, just to see if I'll take my top off? I'm a woman, but that doesn't mean I'm a slut and am going to show you my tits. And recently I switched schools and now go to the school where most of the "rich" kids in my area go, and there really is a difference in these kids attitudes. One guy in my class said being a woman was a waste of time. Not until this year have I ever experienced such behaviour before, and it makes me sick. I'm not a feminist, but I don't understand whats so hard about the men are equal to women concept, because it seems that no one is grasping it anymore. Anyways, I wrote an article about sexism and I'll post it a little later. I'm looking forward to reading other members ideas on the topic.<3

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[10 Nov 2004|08:50pm]
Hey I'm new here.... I read the description for this and decided I had to join... I think that the amount of emphasis that we put on peoples' looks is ridiculous.. I mean, as long as you are happy with yourself, that is all that should matter. I think that the media projects a fake image of what the ideal woman should be. Yes, well anyways, I'm happy to be a member of this community :)
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*new* [28 Oct 2004|08:42am]

[ mood | okay ]

okay, the icon MAY BE pink, and say i Heart Boys. but im a big tomboy. lol
id rather play sports n get dirty then sit around and talk.

it drives me INSANE @ school on dress down days(i wear a uniform) and all the little "popular" girls wear next to nothing. its horrible. And there all stick skinny. All i gotta say is, screw fashion, screw the media. be ur frickin self!

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[20 Oct 2004|06:30pm]

[ mood | bitchy ]

I joined here because I agree with the message. I live in Pennsylvania, in the USA, and I get so fed up with all the fucking girly-girls. And all these cheerleaders, and the girls who wear those little skirts that cover barely anything, I mean I have a 'short' skirt but it doesn't go half way up my ass. I get fed up with the discrimination at my Middle School (I'm 13, I know I don't look like it in my icon, but yeah). Those girls get away with those fucking skirts, but if you dye your hair purple you get in trouble. It's fucking bullshit, that they say it's a disruption to the learning process. It's not our fault people are narrow minded. And I swear, half the girls here are afraid of rain. Yesterday it was raining, and the girls were screaming when they came out of the door like it was raining fire.
Woah, that was longer than I intended.

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I'm New [09 Oct 2004|09:08am]

[ mood | curious ]

So, I was looking around the lj intrests thing when low and behold me I saw one called Not Girly Enough. But I alas I am not American and do not know the American steryotype(let alone spell it). I am Canadian. I live in a Christrian based town. Where sometimnes all you here about is the Lord and His teachings. I am not or believe that. But that is different.
I don't play any instrument anymore and I sing but don't like too around people.

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New SF Music Community! [29 Feb 2004|09:45pm]

Hey, there's a new community-
You should all join! Discuss music, concerts, or just make friends with others who love music as much as you! It's made for people in the South Florida area. At least check it out! :)
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[18 Feb 2004|10:07pm]

sorry, i was kinda being a dumbass, and forgot to put a pic..
there's me.
ME!Collapse )
yes i know, you might think i dont belong here..
but believe it or not,
im one of those "unappropriate" girls of japan.
here goes my..story.
i live in japan,
im a full blood japanese
and i happen to go to an american school which lets me avoid glares, than if i were going to a japanese school.
so anyway,
i have blackish reddish hair (1, that is not allowed in japan for middle schoolers), i have my ears pierced (2, that is not allowed in japan for middle schoolers), i play the guitar (3, thats just weird for japanese middle school girls), i wear black a lot (4, "woo must be evil"), i dont wear a skirt (5, everygirl wears a skirt.).
that is why i joined this community.
end of story.
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[18 Feb 2004|09:57pm]

im new here.

i gotta admit that im not a goth. im not a punk either. i just wear black a lot. and yes, i hate the "perfect" girl idea, and its not fun at all.

i play the electric guitar, and i also sing.

again, i dont know about my label, i just know im not prissy.
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[09 Jan 2004|09:07pm]

i decided that it wasn't fair that all these people were getting friends and im not... so be my friend

aim: wastedroach

i play bass. supposedly im the only chic in my school in a band. that makes me goth. well, so says the peoples court and the peanut gallery.
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new to this here community [26 Oct 2003|10:42pm]

[ mood | bored ]

aight so i'm new to the community. i guess i don't dress like the stereoptypical girl..which is basically the reason i joined. i wear the dickies and the band tees with a hoodie just about every day, along with the volcom hat, or beanie if i feel like it. i read in another post that you wanted to see pictures..i might have one or two decent ones, but if i have more than one i'll put it behind a lj-cut for you guys. if you wanna add me then feel free, i'll add you back. oh yeah, i also read other entries and saw how someone's mom is probably wondering about their sexuality..i'm sure my parents have been wondering for years, especially now that almost all of my friends are lesbians..and my best friend is..so yeah, you know one and you get to know a lot more...and as for being mistaken for a guy..the vice principal of my school called me sir in front of a class full of students a few weeks ago...good times. so enough of my rambling, here's a pic. or two

pics_of_meCollapse )

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i want to rip your heart out and watch you bleed </3 [24 Oct 2003|10:12pm]

[ mood | amused ]

ehh i think i'm starting to get sick.

death is a midnight runner...Collapse )

sorry if there's any x-posting.

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